10 Relationship Facts Every Couple Can Relate To

Binahtiyah

Emotion Code Therapist

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Couples who "maintain" healthy relationship habits usually have less serious problems than couples who don't maintain these healthy relationship habits.

According to research, happy relationships are sustained by healthy relationship habits and positive communications skills. For example, communication is one of the most important habits in a happy relationship. It allows partners to understand each other and provide support for one another. With communication, couples can work through common couple issues such as money, intimacy, trust, chores, arguments and childcare by finding new ways to solve their problems together.

Couples who maintain healthy relationship habits usually have less serious problems than couples who don't maintain these healthy relationship habits. They also usually experience more positive feelings towards their partners which in return makes them feel closer and more connected with their partner(s). It can be hard in today's society because there are many distractions, but relationships are the most important thing that we should focus on.

Let’s explore the areas needed to be focused on:

1. Money/Finance - Generally speaking, when couples engage in conflicts about money, their disputes are really symbolic of something different—power struggles, different values and needs, or other issues that surround money. It’s best to start with understanding what you want from the relationship. Working on your money mindset with Meridian Tapping is one of the best ways to correct or change those negative beliefs so that they work for you in your relationship instead of against it.

2. Communication Skills - One of the most common communication problems is that one half is not listening to what the other half is saying and vice versa. One party doesn't understand what the other person is communicating or they fail to communicate at all. Another key factor in communication is tone of voice, for example sarcasm or passive aggressive comments can be misinterpreted as rudeness and anger when it isn't intended as such. Having an open and safe space to communicate with your partner is a great way to create in a healthy relationship.

3. Loving Your Partner - It is important to show your partner that you care about them. It can be something as small as a hand-written note with a cup of coffee or tea in the morning. Smiling and giving a hug first thing when you wake up or asking your partner how their day went. Showing genuine interest and curiosity in what your partner is saying helps create an atmosphere of security, affection, love and support. These small daily actions help meet each others needs on an emotional and spiritual level. Put away your smartphone, tablet, and other gadgets to make your time together be just about the two of you. Focus on your intimate relationship, because it builds the feeling of love, support and safety in body, mind, soul and spirit. Emotion Code is a great way to help infuse your relationship with love and give it that extra energetic boost.

4. Sex/Intimacy - When it comes to sex, quality is more important than quantity. Have an open heart and mind, an attentive ear, and a true desire to connect spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically. It’s important to have an open communication about one's sexual needs with each other. There should be a safe space created for honesty and openness when discussing sex and intimacy. This creates a safe space to share your thoughts and feelings without judgment or criticism.

5. Arguments/Fights - Healthy relationships have arguments or fights. They also have positive rules of conduct to manage conflicts when they arise. Some of the rules are taking time out, not speaking with profanity, taking turns to speak about your feelings, and giving your prospective and sticking to the point. If you want to get better at fighting fair, register for our live webcast about how to avoid pushing your spouse’s buttons. You can learn how to save your relationship if you adopt to healthy communication skills.

6. Compatibility - Are you compatible with your significant other? After being in a relationship with the same person for numerous years, it’s easy to grow apart. That’s why it’s important to set up a space and time to continue cultivating your intimate relationship. For example, imagine having a garden. You plant the seeds and every now and then you might remember to water your plants. Maybe you forget where you even planted them. Then one day you want to harvest the fruit only to find that there’s nothing there. That would severely impact your life and wellbeing. Unfortunately, this is what happens all too often in relationships. Relationships are a physical, emotional, mental and spiritual investment in you and your partner. The rate of return depends on the amount invested being given. If you find you’re not getting a high return on your investment, it’s time to reassess and perhaps increase what’s being given for a better return.

7. Infidelity & Trust - Infidelity can be expressed in many forms, such as physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. Having your spouse seek and receive emotional support from someone else other than you is devastating. It’s crucial to know what to do if you are experiencing or have experienced a break down in your relationship. The thing to focus on after infidelity has occurred should be to rebuild trust in the relationship. It’s going to take time to repair and restore trust. This article cannot fully encompass the intricate scope of infidelity and broken trust. However, the partner who has broken trust must take full responsibility for what has happened and how it has affected their spouse. There should always be open and honest communication between both people. Make sure to inform your partner of your whereabouts and let them know what your plans are for the day. Also, if you have made a commitment or promise to your partner, make sure to follow through with it, no matter how small the promise may be.

8. Traumas - Many relationships suffer very difficult traumas early on. Traumas such as a loss of a child, parents or loved one. All of these experiences create an energetic disturbance in your energy field. They create a vibration that resonates throughout your aura and your body is broadcasting that signal as you move through your day. You can look at some people and see clearly that they’ve been through something tragic, while others, you would never be able to tell unless someone told you or you were present when it occurred. Telling someone to get over it or just forget about it isn’t going to work. All traumas are energetic in nature and cannot simply disappear over time. If you are struggling with a trauma, whether current or in the past, Body Alignment is one of the best energetic modalities to clear and restore balance to your entire energetic field.

9. Appreciation, Acknowledge and Acceptance - The three A’s are like deposits for your partner’s self-esteem bank account. When you give your partner the three A’s, the “balance” temporarily goes up and he/she will become more loving, giving and better able to listen. Developing healthy habits is important to maintain the longevity of your relationship. You need to know and fully understand your partners love language. Appreciation is telling your partner what you like about him or her. Do it frequently. It’s helpful to make your appreciation very specific, precise and to the point. Acknowledge is being willing to accept that your partner really is having the experience they say they are having. Acceptance is loving your partner just as they really are.

10. Chores - This is the second most triggering reason why couples get into it. Who’s going to do the household chores? Is one person expected to do the bulk of the chores? This leads to deep resentment, frustration and anger. This creates a thought of ‘how can you care about me if you leave me to clean everything up by myself’? It often signals the emotional neglect felt by one or both partners. Our homes are often an expression of our inner world. Take a look around you. If you aren’t happy with what you see, perhaps it’s time to re-organize and prioritize taking the steps to create some much needed changes for yourself.

It’s easy to see why most couples can relate to these ten relationship facts. People often get together to help balance each other based on how they grew up. Learning respect, intimacy, trust, mutual support, sexual expression, economic security and childrearing are all very important. When it comes to relationships, most people have little to no reference on how to make them work. As a result, it is easy to make the same mistakes others have made before you. That’s why it's time to upgrade your relationship skills!

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