7 Things You Should Know Before A Relationship

Binahtiyah

Emotion Code Therapist

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What are you willing to put up with? Even though it sounds simple enough to figure out, it really isn’t. It’s dependent on how you grew up, how you view yourself and the world.

Relationships are complicated. The best way to start a relationship is to know what you really want before dating or starting a relationship with anyone. Armed with these 7 things you should already know before getting into a relationship, it can save you heartache and financial difficulties. When you are clear about what you are looking for, it makes it easier to find the person who is right for you and to have the experience you desire.

1. Know what you really want out of your relationship

Ask yourself these questions before dating or entering a relationship: who is your ideal partner? What type of person do I want to be with? What kind of energy do I want to have in my relationships? How much time do I need in a day to give myself and others space? Am I ready for another serious commitment like marriage after getting out of an abusive or toxic relationship? You can start by simply noting down some of the things that feel right to you; what you have noticed in the relationships of your friends and family members? Would you really want that experience for you?

2. Know what your deal breaker is

You need to figure out what your deal breaker is, so that you can be sure that you are making the right decision. There are just some things that I absolutely will not budge on when it comes to relationships and those are physical, mental and emotional abuse. That’s a deal breaker for me. You need to know what yours are. What are you willing to put up with? Even though it sounds simple enough to figure out, it really isn’t. It’s dependent on how you grew up, how you view yourself and the world. You may need some form of therapy like Emotion Code if it isn’t healthy.

3. Know what your money limit is

“Money doesn’t grow on trees”. You’ve probably heard this expression at some point in your life and a whole host of other similar sayings. In order to have a good relationship with money, it is important to have a positive attitude towards spending and saving. However, it is not always easy to achieve this mindset after being brought up in a financially unstable environment. There are many people right now who are wondering if they’re going to be able to get rent this month. And even though you know you need to change your mindset towards money, it’s a really challenging place to be. However, it’s important to discover what your money limitations are. Some are aware of them while others maybe totally clueless. You can start by using Meridian Tapping to clear some of your blockages to money, wealth or abundance of energy.

4. Know if you want children and how many

It’s important to know within yourself as a female whether you want children or not. It’s all too easy to fall prey to baby fever and the pressure of all your friends settling down to have them. Is it for you? Are you open and ready to be fully responsible for another life for the next 21 years and beyond? And financially, can you handle it? It’s best to know upfront what you are willing to be committed to doing. You can begin by asking yourself some simple questions like: do you have siblings and, if so, do you get along? Are you an only child and do you like it that way? That might give you some clue as to what direction you are leaning more towards when it comes to this point.

5. Know how you’re gonna keep it going

So you’ve made up your mind and you are all in with both feet. You’ve made a full commitment to seeing your relationship to its fruition and have made your plans. You’ve done the I do’s and tied the knot. You’re now living the dream. But wait? How are you going to keep things going? The love, romance, intimacy and steamy hot sex with a baby in the next room? Who’s going to pay for it? Do you even have a plan or any energy left over? You can start by asking yourself some tough questions and answer them as honestly as you can. You can even start by speaking with a trusted friend if you are struggling with it on your own. If that’s not an option, then perhaps Khayah Reiki could help clear some energy blocks so you can discover the answers.

6. Know what your back-up plan is going to be

OMG, you’ve just realized how expensive your new lifestyle changes are going to be. Are you ready for any sudden changes to what you are used to? What if you have twins instead of one baby or triplets for that matter? What if you or your spouse couldn’t continue working because of some unforeseen changes? I’m sure we can all relate to this type of experience. Just consider what the impact of COVID-19 has had around the world. And it’s still going on as of the writing of this article. Do you have a solid plan or work around? Even though we know you can never really be fully prepared, we’ve all had the lessons of 2020-2021 to help us recognize the ability to pivot, re-strategize, re-invent and go with the flow of whatever life throws at you. It’s time to live a more holistic lifestyle and Quantum Upgrade is an excellent place to start your new journey.

7. Know what your sexual limits and boundaries are

Ooh sex, everybody wants it. We are all preoccupied with it in one way or another. So, are you all fifty shades of gray or are you black and white when it comes to sex? Do you even like sex? Are you into sexual role play, fantasy games etc? Or has your very strict religious upbringing put a kibosh on your sex life and you’re striving to reverse that little bit of hiccup? Depending on where you’re at, if you are on the prudish side (no offense), you can start with simple positive affirmations about your body. Just to make you like your body, because a number has been done on a certain group of the human population surrounding this (I won’t call any religion/political groups out on this). And if you’re at the other end of the spectrum, then THOTS of the world unite (if you’re offended by this, you seriously need Quantum upgrade, not kidding). We are here to help balance the masculine and feminine energies within you.

Every relationship you have ever had or are going to have may be intricate and even complicated. There are so many self-help books out there and some people are good at taking full advantage of them as they should. However, there is a larger group of the population that are aware that help is out there, but find it difficult to know where to begin. Knowing these 7 things about yourself before getting into a relationship can save you heartache and even some money in the long run. If you are serious about getting into any kind of long-term relationship of any kind, it’s best to know where you stand.

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